You state the obvious. I know women aren't looking for perfection. But they want safety too much. They fear creeps too much. And women play tricks to test a man: that ruin everything by showing their disingenuity by faking it. These are three big ones. You're neglecting these. Please consider arming men with wisdom about these women's issues, as men can better challenge and correct for these "women to women" rumors of how to "protect yourself" while dating men. Thanks, Ossiana!